Women are a reward for a man’s value

In the Bible, 

Isaac, Jacob, Joseph, David and so on, have one thing in common:

Women were the reward they got for becoming useful to society. Pay attention.

Women weren’t GIVEN to them BEFORE they became men of value, it was AFTER they became valuable to society.

This is what most guys don’t understand. Thing is, you will continue to get that same bad result you have been getting with women if you are useless to society. It will continue to become harder, harder & harder for you to attract women if you have no value. This is not even about having game.

This is about value, pure value that is useful to society. Without having this value it would be hard for you to be appealing to women – you will have to work 10 times harder to make women fall for you.

For instance, it’s easy for someone like Brad Pitt to make women fall for him compared to an average bloke out there.

This is because women don’t care whether a man has dreams or ambition, they don’t care whether a man has envisioned a life he wants to build for himself. All they care about is him being a winner or whether he’d emerge a winner or a loser. And if you have no value or you have no prospects of becoming valuable, she won’t be attracted to you let alone consider you as a potential mate.

Can’t blame her. Put yourself in the shoes of women. If you were the weaker vessel would you want to settle for a man who can’t provide for himself let alone feed you and your children?

This is why you must become valuable before you start going after women. I’m not suggesting that you should ignore women completely—that would be foolish. Interact with women. You can even try to date. But, don’t let them play an important role in your life that would open the door wide for them to stymie your growth.